Can RCIA Candidates go to Daily Mass?
In reviewing my website analytics, I discovered that someone came across my blog after typing this question into Google. I just wanted to provide a big old YES! You can most definitely attend any type of mass as an RCIA candidate or even as a non-Catholic. The only thing you cannot participate in is receiving the Eucharist.
While I was in RCIA, I attended daily mass quite often. I learned SO much from the homilies and was inspired to learn more on a variety of different topics. I always chose to go up and receive a blessing from the priest during mass, though if you are uncomfortable, you don’t need to do that. I always looked at it as I’ll take any and all blessings I can get :).
If you choose to go up, just cross your arms over your chest and the priest will know you would like to receive a blessing instead of communion. Or alternately, you can just stand in the pew and wave others past you. Catholics do not receive communion if they feel they have committed a mortal sin, as we must be in a worthy state to receive, so you likely will not be alone in not receiving the Eucharist.
One other note, I felt daily mass was confusing at first, as it seemed different to me than Sunday mass. It is a shortened form and sometimes they choose alternate versions of some of the things we speak aloud. Find a guide to the mass and bring it along. You may also want to pick up guidebook outside the chapel or church or get yourself a missal, which has the daily readings, as well as the Entrance Antiphon, which we say at the beginning of mass, and the Communion Antiphon, which we say at the end of mass. Just follow along with everyone else and after a few weeks, you’ll have it down pat.
Got other questions about RCIA? Shout! I would love to help.
As a grouchy traditionalist, I will say that I’m not crazy about the practice of going up in the Communion line to get a blessing. The priest gives a general blessing just a few minutes later, at the end of Mass, and most will be happy to give you a personal blessing if you ask after Mass.
My advice would be to sit at the end of the pew so that you can get up either to let people out or back in (depending on which end you’re on) and make a spiritual communion in the meantime.
Thanks Will. I’ve found it depends on the parish and the priest about going up to receive a blessing. I think if you see others doing it, it’s OK. Can you share more with us about what a spiritual communion is?
Here’s a typical prayer for spiritual communion (from EWTN’s website):
My Jesus,
I believe that You
are present in the Most Holy Sacrament.
I love You above all things,
and I desire to receive You into my soul.
Since I cannot at this moment
receive You sacramentally,
come at least spiritually into my heart. I embrace You as if You were already there and unite myself wholly to You. Never permit me to be separated from You.
Amen.
Basically, it is a way to acknowledge Christ’s real presence in the Eucharist while one is prevented from receiving the sacrament.
Thank you! That would be a wonderful thing for any RCIA candidate to do while waiting to receive the Eucharist.
Will: During my time in RCIA (was just initiated into the Church on this past Holy Thursday), I loved receiving a blessing from the priest. I yearned to receive the Eucharist and this let me feel like I was at least participating in the process. Plus it saved others from climbing over me; there were several times when I tried to sit at the end of the pew so I could move aside for others, but, typically, last-minute arrivals would cause me to move to the middle of the pew.
I loved going to daily mass during RCIA. It helped me to learn what was going on and when to stand, sit, and kneel. I still go as often as I can.
Great perspective. Thanks Bev!
Thank you for answering this